Prince Harry sent ‘unpleasant’ and ‘imperious’ message to Sentebale boss after she refused to publicly defend Meghan over polo match spat

Prince Harry was today accused of sending an ‘unpleasant’ and ‘imperious’ note to the boss of Sentebale demanding she ‘explain herself’ when she declined to publicly defend his wife following their a famous and awkward exchange at a polo event.

The excruciating video showing Meghan Markle moving Dr Sophie Chandauka away from her husband in Florida in April 2024 has been viewed by millions online. 

Dr Chandauka said yesterday that Prince Harry had, via his team, asked her ‘to issue some sort of a statement in support’ and quash rumours of tension between them.

But today it was claimed that when she refused to be drawn into it, Prince Harry allegedly sent Sentebale’s chair a message directly demanding that she ‘explain herself’, a source has claimed to the Daily Telegraph.

The note was ‘unpleasant’ in tone and used ‘imperious’ language, leaving Dr Chandauka upset, the same insider said.

Her refusal to publicly back Meghan contributed to the bitter dispute that has culminated in Harry resigning from the children’s charity he set up to make his mother proud almost 20 years ago, the Telegraph.

The footage video showing Meghan Markle moving her around at the Royal Salute Polo Challenge in Wellington, Florida, in support of Sentebale’s work, went around the world at the time.

But it has taken on new importance after Dr Chandauka claimed the polo event was gatecrashed by the former Suits star with Serena Williams and a Netflix crew in tow.

The Duke of Sussex and Board Chair Dr. Sophie Chandauka MBE attend a Sentebale reception and panel discussion at The Saxon Hotel in Johannesburg last October

The ‘highly awkward’ moment at a fundraising polo match for Sentebale in the US last year

The Duchess of Sussex forced the charity boss to duck under the trophy as Harry celebrated the win.

Moments before, Meghan had kissed her husband to celebrate his win – with a Netflix camera crew there to capture the moment for his TV series on polo. 

The footage of Meghan and Dr Chandauka with Harry at the centre has been watched millions of times online in the past year but is being viewed again in a new light after Dr Chandauka’s bombshell interview with Sky News yesterday where she discussed the notorious clip.

Meghan had caused ‘disruption’ and a very crowded stage after turning up at short notice and bringing her ‘very famous friend’ Serena Williams, the chair of Harry’s charity claimed.  

She also claims that, prior to the charity Polo event in April 2024, Meghan confirmed she would not be attending. But she then arrived with her tennis legend friend Serena.

Speaking to Sky News‘ Trevor Phillips, Dr Chandauka recalled the events of the chaotic event, telling him: ‘We would have been really excited had we known ahead of time [Meghan was coming], but we didn’t. 

‘And so the choreography went badly on stage because we had too many people on stage. The international press captured this, and there was a lot of talk about the Duchess and the choreography on stage and whether she should have been there and her treatment of me.

The Duchess of Sussex presents the trophy to her husband, the Duke of Sussex after his team the Royal Salute Sentebale Team defeated the Grand Champions Team, in the Royal Salute Polo Challenge, to benefit Sentebale

Meghan Markle speaks with Serena Williams at the 2024 Royal Salute Polo Challenge for Sentebale.  Dr Chandauka claims that, prior to a charity Polo event in 2024, Meghan confirmed she would not be attending. But she then arrived with her tennis legend friend

Dr Chandauka claims that they had to change the venue when the Sussexes asked for Netflix to attend

‘Prince Harry asked me to issue some sort of a statement in support of the Duchess, and I said I wouldn’t. 

‘Not because I didn’t care about the Duchess, but because I knew what would happen if I did so, number one. And number two, because we cannot be an extension of the Sussexes.’ 

Meghan was filmed asking Dr Chandauka not to stand next to the duke at the trophy presentation.

The former actress could be seen in video footage requesting that Dr Chandauka move to another spot in the group, insisting that she be in the middle of the huddle next to her husband.

Moments before, Meghan had kissed her husband to celebrate his win.

In the footage from April 2024, Dr Chandauka, who was stood on the Duke’s right, was asked twice by Meghan to move to her left side away from Harry, as he kept his arm around his wife.

Others therefore had to shuffle around them to find a place, with Dr Chandauka awkwardly having to duck under the trophy to get into the position Meghan was asking her to stand in. Dr Chandauka then said something inaudible to her.

‘The international press captured this, and there was a lot of talk about the Duchess and the choreography on stage and whether she should have been there and her treatment of me. 

‘Prince Harry asked me to issue some sort of a statement in support of the Duchess, and I said I wouldn’t. 

‘Not because I didn’t care about the Duchess, but because I knew what would happen if I did so, number one. And number two, because we cannot be an extension of the Sussexes.’ 

Royal expert Richard Fitzwilliams said Meghan’s unexpected appearance at the event ’caused confusion’, describing the incident between the Duchess and Dr Chavunduka onstage as ‘awkward’. 

‘Meghan was not expected at a polo match in 2024 and this caused confusion which was symptomatic of the chaos which Dr Chavunduka claims the charity had descended into,’ he told MailOnline. 

‘She refused to issue a statement in support of Meghan, there had been an awkward incident between them.’ 

Mr Fitzwilliams added: ‘The ferocious feud that has split Sentebale, which Prince Harry co-founded in memory of his beloved mother, Princess Diana, will be a bitter blow to him, as he now has no link with a charity that he has been involved with since 2006, when he co-founded it.’

The expert also said the accusations of ‘bullying against’ Harry – claims the Duke’s representatives have strongly denied – echo previous accusations of bullying against his wife Meghan – also strongly denied. 

In a bombshell new interview, Sentebale chairman Dr Sophie Chandauka has made several damaging claims against the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, calling their brand ‘toxic’

Nacho Figueras, Dr Sophie Chandauka, Chair of Sentebale, Prince Harry and Richard Miller, CEO of Sentebale attend the Royal Salute Polo Challenge benefitting Sentebale at Grand Champions Polo Club on April 12, 2024

Dr Chandauka (third from right) claimed the Sussexes’ brand had become ‘toxic’ (pictured at the Royal Salute Polo Challenge held in Florida in April last year to raise funds for Sentebale)

‘Harry has been accused of ‘bullying and harassment’. There are echoes here of the allegations against Meghan which appeared in the Times before the infamous interview they gave on Oprah, which she strongly denied,’ Mr Fitzwilliams said. 

‘However they have recently surfaced in The Hollywood Reporter and Vanity Fair. They will surely adversely affect the Sussexes image.’ 

Last week, Prince Harry announced that he and several trustees had quit Sentebale, the charity he set up with Prince Seeiso of Lesotho in 2006, amid a boardroom battle within the organisation. 

Dr Chandauka, who has been chairwoman of Sentebale since 2023, accused the duke of being ‘involved’ in a ‘cover-up’ of an investigation about bullying, harassment and misogyny at the organisation and said the ‘toxicity’ of his ‘brand’ had impacted the charity. 

A source close to the former trustees of the Sentebale charity described Dr Chandauka’s claims that she was bullied and harassed, briefed against by Prince Harry, or that the Sussex machine was ‘unleashed on her’ as ‘completely baseless’.  

Dr Chandauka also claimed that before the event, an opportunity for Sentebale to do a charity Polo Challenge in Miami was ruined when Harry insisted on bringing his Netflix camera crew along.

‘About a month before the event was about to take place, Prince Harry called the team and said, ‘I’m doing a Netflix show, and I would love to bring a camera crew so that I can include some footage in this show,” she said. 

‘And so the team called me and told me, ‘Oh, Prince Harry’s made this request, so we’re doing the things’. 

‘I said, you can’t be doing the things without seeking consent from the property owners, the sponsors, all the guests. Nobody signed up to being on a Netflix show.’ 

She added: ‘We come up with draft agreements and of course, the venue owner says this is now a commercial undertaking. 

‘So here are my terms. We couldn’t afford it. So now we lost the venue.’ 

In an astonishing message to Harry the chairman also said: ‘The team is resolved that Sentebale will live on, with or without you.’

Harry’s two-month trip to the kingdom of Lesotho during his gap year aged 19 inspired him to establish the charity two years later in honour of his mother, Diana, Princess of Wales.

The young duke came face-to-face with Aids orphans, met other traumatised young people and visited herd boys living a harsh existence looking after cattle in remote mountain areas.

MailOnline has contacted the Sussexes for comment. 

Meghan and Harry pictured at the ‘disruptive’ charity polo game in Florida last April

But Dr Chandauka (second from left) pictured with Nacho Figueras (left), Prince Harry (second from right) and Sentebale’s chief executive Richard Miller (right) at the polo event in Florida last April

Dr Chandauka (left), the chair of Prince Harry’s beleaguered charity Sentebale, said she had been asked to defend Meghan Markle against negative publicity