Sarah Ferguson stresses the importance of ‘optimism’ and ‘turning your cheek to joy’ following breast cancer diagnosis – and says she and her supportive daughters are a ‘tripod’
Sarah Ferguson has stressed the importance of ‘turning your cheek to joy’ following a breast cancer diagnosis and mastectomy earlier this year as she opened up about how her loved ones – especially her two daughters – rallied around her in support.
The Duchess of York, 64, was on Lorraine today, as she backed Big Give’s Christmas Challenge – which doubles your donation to a worthy cause for the festive season.
She opened up about the need for optimism after, in early May, attending an appointment in London for a mammogram.
Rather than being given the all-clear, as expected, the technician explained that a ‘shadow’ could be seen in the breast.
In June, she had undergone a successful single mastectomy at King Edward VII’s Hospital in London, and today told Lorraine that her children Princesses Beatrice and Eugenie, as well as the medical professionals which took care of her, kept her outlook positive.
The Duchess of York , 64, was on Lorraine today, as she backed Big Give’s Christmas Challenge – which doubles your donation to a worthy cause for the festive season
‘The girls and I were a tripod together and the grandchildren,’ she told the programme today.
‘I’m doing well… I feel the potential for optimism is what I would want for everyone to come away from this show about because that’s what you give.
‘You just turn your cheek to joy, turn your cheek to optimism.’
She opened up about the ‘teamwork’ it took to keep her spirit up.
‘You’re diagnosed, you’re really sitting in the car and you think “Ok that’s it”, you know. “I’ve finished”,’ she recounted.
‘And then of course the nurses, the support, the team come round…
‘It was really the nurses and all the people – teamwork.’
The duchess’s cancer nightmare began earlier this year when a routine test first detected something was seriously wrong before the Coronation.
Sarah Ferguson has stressed the importance of ‘turning your cheek to joy’ following a breast cancer diagnosis and mastectomy earlier this year as she opened up about how her loved ones – especially her two daughters – rallied around her in support
She opened up about the need for optimism after, in early May, attending an appointment in London for a mammogram
Speaking on the show, Sarah also showed her ardent support for a Huddersfield charity, which organises trips for families affected by cancer or life limiting illnesses
In early May, Sarah attended an appointment in London for a mammogram. Rather than being given the all-clear, as expected, the technician explained that a ‘shadow’ could be seen in the breast.
Given the size of the area, a lumpectomy was ruled out and Sarah was strongly advised to go ahead with a single mastectomy, which would eradicate the shadow of cancerous cells across the breast.
Speaking on the show today, Sarah also showed her ardent support for a Huddersfield charity, which organises trips for families affected by cancer or life limiting illnesses.
She was full of praise for Ruddi’s Retreat – named after eleven-year-old Ruddi Waterworth-Jones, who battled cancer at only six months old.
As a baby Ruddi spent more than a year undergoing aggressive treatment for rhabdomarsacoma, a rare cancer of the soft tissue.
During that time the family benefited from the use of a free holiday home courtesy of the Candlelighters Charity.
Ruddi’s Retreat aims to provide similar respite and quality time to families with seriously ill children. The charity opened its first static caravan at Primrose Valley in Filey, Yorkshire, in 2012.
Sarah also told Lorraine about how she would like to see ‘love and forgiveness’ in all families this Christmas.
When Lorraine asked if we’ll ever see ‘the whole family’ come together again because ‘Christmas is a time to bring people together’, Sarah said, ‘I couldn’t agree more. If we watch enough of these Christmas movies and sing enough of these Christmas songs… Can we just all have love, forgiveness and happiness and joy?’
She adde: ‘I feel strongly the greatest gift you can give today is understanding, no judgement, no race, creed, colour or any other domination, just love. There’s no better gift than love.
‘People say to me, you don’t wear your heart on your sleeve, Fergie or Sarah, you wear it all over your body because that’s what I am.’
Sarah has been candid about her experiences with breast cancer earlier this year. Pictured in September
It comes as Sarah last night made an appearance at Princess Beatrice’s charity’s inaugural gala at the Battersea Arts Centre in south London.
Princess Eugenie led the glamour on a very star-studded night out in London on Wednesday as she was joined by her mother and sister.
Perhaps one of the best connected royals, Eugenie, 33, was joined by a flurry of A-list stars, including Ed Sheeran and James Blunt.
Looking stunning in a black satin dress with a thigh-high split, by Peter Pilotto and Christopher De Vos, the royal was also joined by dozens of high society pals including cousin Zara Tindall, Prince Harry‘s ex Cressida Bonas, TV presenter Natalie Pinkham and former Prime Minster Theresa May.
Both the York sisters husbands Edoardo Mapelli Mozzi and Jack Brooksbank dressed up in smart tuxedos for the evening.
Julia de Boinville, the co-founder of the Anti-Slavery Collective, added a touch of glam in sequined green gown.
Through the charity, founded in 2017, Julia and Eugenie, have worked across several sectors to help bring an end to modern slavery and also launched their podcast Floodlight, where they interview guests on how best to end the practice around the world.
The York trio each oozed elegance in black frocks as they smiled alongside each other, with Beatrice sporting a Self Portrait dress with jacket detailing, while Eugenie chose a Peter Pilotto & Christopher de Vos satin-effect gown with a slit in the skirt and gathering at the waist, plus gold button detailing.
Eugenie is clearly a fan of the Australian-Italian design duo who also made her wedding dress to marry Jack Brooksbank in 2018.
Adding even more star-power to the look, Eugenie added a Gabriela hearst Metallic Nina Lambskin Bag and Jimmy Choo Lang 100 Gold Metallic Sandals.
Speaking ahead of the event Eugenie, 33, praised Ed Sheeran, who performed, for his involvement, saying: ‘It’s the most insane thing. Ed is game changer and an entertainer of a generation, so I’m absolutely lost of words that he’s coming.
‘He’s also one of the nicest people so I’m truly honoured and very grateful to have him there and help us on The Anti-Slavery Collective’s mission.’
Eugenie, the second child of the Duke and Duchess of York, said she had been motivated to set up the charity, which aims to end modern slavery by the humanitarian work of her mother, Sarah Ferguson
‘My mum does a lot of charity work and always raised my sister and I to give back,’ Princess Eugenie said.
The Royal, who now lives in Portugal with her husband Jack and their two sons, said that a trip to Calcutta with her mother and Julia in 2012 had sown the seeds for the Anti-Slavery Collective.